Experience
July 21, 2008 | 1:08 pm
We are travelers on this road of life – all of us. Come pitch your tent next to mine, because I want to learn from you. I want to know how you came to your insights and how Life has shaped you, and what lessons you pass on like precious pearls to others.
Experience is sacred. For it is experience that teaches. Nothing else. It is experience alone that allows us to truly own knowledge. Think about that. Knowledge is academical until we are able to integrate it through experience. Then the path within becomes illuminated – not because you listened to a captivating sermon, or read the charismatic and enchanting words of another. But because “Know Thyself” is the most fundamental of all instructions given to man – and that does not come without incorporating what you think you know through experience.
Eons ago, I declared my need and desire to investigate other religions and discern for myself from whence came their devotion and wisdom. I said I wanted to learn how to meditate. When in front of me sat a clergyman; his mouth, like a dark cave opened in slow motion and echoed hollow words: That is best left alone. Everything from the East is heathen.
I left in haste for I was in the presence of great ignorance. Ignorance is only harmless, if it lacks an agenda. And the agenda was unmistakable.
When I stood outside with the sun on my face, I clearly knew the error of his statement. If we only ever know one thing, and keep investigating the same source, it is the very same thing as lowering your bucket down the well every day and expecting to draw anything but water to the surface.
So I took off and investigated as much as I could. I joined the festivals of many different religions and groups, I read their books and ate their food, and talked to them endlessly. I looked into the eyes of those who held different beliefs, and saw worthy human beings – who like me – were treading the path of life. Some clasped their holy books to their hearts and said that they had found the ultimate answer, others like me, knew the journey had to be internal. I began to understand that the interconnectedness of everything was a golden clue. If we are all one, and if the God spirit was everywhere and thus also within me – then the age old message, found in all the holy scriptures of the world, indeed was sound advice – to Know Thyself.
The better I get to know myself, the better acquainted I become with All that is. It is logical to me that to know God without knowing yourself is a fallacy.
So, you are welcome to pitch your tent next to mine. If at night, you burn incense and hum softly as you read from your Bagavad Gita or Vedic scriptures, I shall inhale the fragrance and admire your devotion, and marvel that we are all simply travelers on the same road. And while we are gathered under the stars, look about you, there will be others about their business, like you and me. Some will be reading the Koran, others cherish the Bible, or the Menassah Ben Isael – but if you’re lucky, you will notice the unassuming tent of the Bushman made of animal skins who lives in the Kalahari Desert in Africa - always pitched a little distance from all the rest. They too reach for God, but they don’t read holy books, or try to convince others of their beliefs. They worship the spirits of their forefathers personified in the elements – Fire, Air, Earth and Water. And their “knowing” might not be as academic as yours and mine – but it has an element of reverence and humility unsurpassed by any. Every expression of devotion is worthy – who are we to judge?
Have you noticed that severe judgment sacrifices humility for fanaticism? And ironically, that is the very first sign of a very puny faith. Fanaticism impresses few, for all who listen to it knows that it lacks any real experience.
The God spirit clothes itself in the fabric woven from our collective experiences. Interconnected as we are, every experience we learn from and integrate, benefits mankind – and adds to All that is.
Posted by: law of attraction books, Spiritual issues, Happiness, Joy, Difficulty, Overcoming difficulty, Overcoming obstacles, growth — epretorius
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Time To Get Back to Geocaching!
May 21, 2008 | 6:54 am
I haven’t written much about geocaching lately, not because it hasn’t been on my mind, but because some reading topics really took over. But a recent radio interview reminded me that it’s spring, it’s time to get out there and start geocaching again!
I spend a fair amount of time on the beginner’s forums over at geocaching.com, because a lot of the most expert cachers are busy discussing more advanced topics, and I think it’s important to help folks just starting out — that’s the point of my book, Open Your Heart with Geocaching, after all! And what’s been interesting to me, lately, is seeing how much people are in a hurry.
What do I mean? One new cacher wants to place his first cache and wants to know what to put in it … though he would have known that if he’d found any number of caches; the guidelines tell you to find a lot before you place any. Another poster also wanted to place a cache, but didn’t know where she should do it. Placing a cache should be a thoughtful activity, one that’s inspired by a certain place or idea … not by responses on a forum.
But what all this really says to me is how much we’re, all of us, in a hurry most of the time. We want to grow up quickly, buy that cool new item now, have a promotion before we really understand our current work. We live in a disposable society where everything from batteries to spouses are seen as replaceable, and where instant gratification is the norm. But … does it make us happy? Divorce rates, bankruptcy rates, runaway rates, crime rates all paint a different picture.
What if we stopped seeing life as a race? What if we decided to do some of the things I talk about in my book –slow down. Look up. Find your joy. What if we lived those things, instead of being in such a hurry?
I have a sense of what my life would look like if I took my own words to heart. What would yours?
–Jeannette Cézanne
Open Your Heart with Geocaching
www.JeannetteCezanne.com
Posted by: Geocaching, Opening the heart, Happiness, Peace, growth — jcezanne
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Happy Valentine’s Day!
February 13, 2008 | 10:32 am
While the historian in me wants to go on and on about slapping people with goat hides (I’m not kidding), I (sometimes) heed my husband’s advice and try to keep articles focused on a topic that might actually appeal to more than two or three people on the planet. So I’ll talk about Valentine’s Day in the here and now instead.
It would seem an obvious connection: the open your heart series and the hearts of Valentine’s Day. And yet … and yet. There’s a certain exclusivity to the holiday that — it seems to me — often doesn’t end up opening hearts. When I was still in high school (and a girls’ school, at that!) there was definite superiority around the “I have one and you don’t” notion. And we live in a culture that tells us there’s something wrong in being single, in being childless, in being unattached. That being alone corresponds to loneliness and despair (and implies a certain unattractiveness in the person who is alone), while being with a partner makes one, somehow, “complete.”
And nowhere and at no time is this clearer than on Valentine’s Day.
Aside from the larger picture (that such assumptions are both untrue and hurtful), there’s not much there about opening one’s heart, is there? How do people spend the holiday? If they do not have partners, they often become depressed by the barrage of “this-is-the-way-you-should-be” messages. If they do have partners, they are besieged with “you-should-spend-more-than-you-can-afford-to-show-your-love” messages. Not very much there that I’d call loving.
So maybe we can all make resolutions to do something different this Valentine’s Day, something better. Show love in a non-exclusive way. Here are a few suggestions:
- adopt a dog or a cat from your local animal shelter. You’re pretty much guaranteed to have your love returned in triplicate.
- banish the winter blahs with an early spring cleaning: gather up all those books that have been cluttering your home and donate them to a library, shelter, or senior center.
- speaking of senior centers, remember that visits are always welcomed by people unable to go out much on their own. Better still, double up with the first suggestion and visit with your new dog or cat!
- write letters — real ones — to that great-aunt or old friend you’ve been neglecting.
- get involved in your community! The winter is a great time to meet people at church suppers, film screenings, and club activities. If you’re not in a club, join one.
- take your boss out for a hot chocolate and don’t ask him/her for a raise. Do it just because.
- give yourself permission to turn off the TV, ignore the ads, and spend Thursday evening doing precisely what you want to do.
The paradigm won’t change unless you take the lead in changing it! And then you’ll really open your heart!
– Jeannette Czanne
http://www.JeannetteCezanne.com
Posted by: Opening the heart, Happiness — jcezanne
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Sharing Presentations
February 6, 2008 | 4:15 pm
I was scheduled to present a program on geocaching at the Manchester City Library this past weekend an introduction to the hobby, with the caveat that I’d be able to sell copies of Open Your Heart with Geocaching at the event.
Unsure of how many people would attend, I decided to also make it into an event cache. What that means is that it was given a title (”Open Your Heart”) and listed at geocaching.com, thus drawing in people in the area who have already joined Groundspeak, the parent company of geocaching.com.
What actually happened was amazing 25 people came out on a gloomy winter afternoon to learn more about opening their hearts through geocaching! I sold some books, the refreshments from Carem’s Cakes were appreciated by everyone, and several attendees have already joined and are starting geocaching. I’ll be doing presentations at the library on an ongoing basis, and hopefully more and more people will learn about this fabulous hobby.
It’s enough to … open one’s heart!
– Jeannette Czanne
http://www.JeannetteCezanne.com
Posted by: geocaching books, Opening the heart, Learning something new, Happiness, Joy — jcezanne
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Pleasant Surprises
December 6, 2007 | 8:36 am
I had a very pleasant surprise this week indeed. I was attending a conference in Boston, and happened to sit beside a woman from Texas during one of the sessions. “Everyone’s so nice here,” she said at the break in the lecture.
“Huh?” I wasn’t sure I’d heard her correctly. We in New England are known for being cold and surly, by comparison with the rest of the country … certainly not “nice.”
“Oh, yes,” she affirmed. “Everyone’s been kind, has gone out of their way to help me. Nicer than they are at home. People in the street, when I ask for directions …”
More amazing still. It snowed recently, it’s freezing cold, and sidewalks in Boston are iced over. And in that climate people are taking time to be helpful?
It gave me hope, that encounter. That maybe people are nicer than the news would have us believe. That we all still have the capacity to be kind to a stranger. And I found myself inspired by it, smiling more at people throughout the day, stopping to give money to a shivering homeless man on my way to the subway, not getting quite as upset as I normally might when I realized I’d lost one of my gloves at the conference.
It’s contagious, this “nice” thing. Wouldn’t it be great if we could all catch a little?
– Jeannette Czanne
http://www.JeannetteCezanne.com
Posted by: Something completely different, Opening the heart, Happiness, Being Peace — jcezanne
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